tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24778307.post114926292904260930..comments2023-09-03T01:26:04.350-07:00Comments on Natural Mom on a Shoestring: It's JuneBeccihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02843445845439279244noreply@blogger.comBlogger35125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24778307.post-70175281308343959602008-04-27T12:19:00.000-07:002008-04-27T12:19:00.000-07:00*hugs**hugs*Robhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15785947283551628856noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24778307.post-1150345069200938462006-06-14T21:17:00.000-07:002006-06-14T21:17:00.000-07:00Hi there. I stumbled upon your blog from another, ...Hi there. I stumbled upon your blog from another, and read what you have been experiencing. Thank you for sharing the story of your miscarriage. I suffered a miscarriage, too, and I know how trimatic it is. I went into a deep depression and had all those questions of "why?" I know now that God had a plan for me, and He has one for you too. I just know Dorothy is going to make it into this world and be a beautiful addition to your family. I will pray for you and for the healthy arrival of your little bundle of joy. You will never be the same. God bless!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24778307.post-1149621918632035492006-06-06T12:25:00.000-07:002006-06-06T12:25:00.000-07:00Thank you for sharing Kaily's story. I am sorry t...Thank you for sharing Kaily's story. I am sorry they didn't give you the chance to see your little girl. ((((((many hugs)))))) to you and kisses to sweet Kaily in heaven!katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16536809590856333391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24778307.post-1149617621945787142006-06-06T11:13:00.000-07:002006-06-06T11:13:00.000-07:00I am at work crying and feeling so selfish. I fou...I am at work crying and feeling so selfish. I found your blog a couple of weeks ago after reading your comments posted on a friends blog, preemiehood. I now found myself spending work time to follow your story too. I pray that your Dorothy makes it to term and is a happy, healthy baby. I am the mother of two boys who were both full term and healthy. Jaden is two years old and Chandler is 2 1/2 months. They are the loves of my life!! The reason I said that I feel selfish is that sometimes I found myself complaining because my newborn is a little colicky and keeps my up at night which makes me a little delirious and very forgetful. After reading your and my friends blogs, I realize how lucky I am to have had to opportunity to have a crying baby keep me up all night. Thank you, thank you, thank you for sharing your story. It has made my love for my boys even stronger..if that is possible. And made me realize how blessed I am. I pray that you can bring that beautiful baby girl home one day so she can keep you up at night too. =)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24778307.post-1149543143561450142006-06-05T14:32:00.000-07:002006-06-05T14:32:00.000-07:00(((Hugs))) Becci, thanks for sharing your story. ...(((Hugs))) Becci, thanks for sharing your story. Reading your words very much reminded me of my own experience. <BR/>It brings me much comfort, and even hope, to keep up with your story, as I feel you are several miles down the very same road I am on...and for that I sincerely thank you! <BR/>Hugs, again.Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18427451754874226530noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24778307.post-1149486582745143062006-06-04T22:49:00.000-07:002006-06-04T22:49:00.000-07:00Becci, I just read this again, along with all the ...Becci, I just read this again, along with all the wonderful things that others have written to you and David.<BR/><BR/>I have to tell everyone out there that wrote these things that knowing my daughter as I do, I know how comforting these words are to her. You all have put an invaluable amount of healing into the soul. Thanks. Love, MomAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24778307.post-1149466029390492372006-06-04T17:07:00.000-07:002006-06-04T17:07:00.000-07:00Sarah, I don't mind at all....I have weekly appoin...Sarah, <BR/>I don't mind at all....<BR/><BR/>I have weekly appointments through 37 weeks when stitch removal is supposed to take place. Each time they measure the length of my cervix and check for funneling. I also get progesterone shots in the butt (don't like those so much) to help prevent preterm labor. I will be on strict bedrest until 32 weeks at which time it MAY become modified bedrest. Th concern with the stitch is not whether it will hold, the stitch itself is strong. With finneling to the stitch the hope is that I would not dilate beyond it, and so far so good, but if I were to have hard, sustained contractions that they couldn't stop, my tissue could tear right through the stitch. My cervix is and has been very soft since before the cerclage was placed. SO we are just hoping for the best. Cerclage works for most IC patients. I'm obviously hoping to be one of the success stories.Beccihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02843445845439279244noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24778307.post-1149464779363598012006-06-04T16:46:00.000-07:002006-06-04T16:46:00.000-07:00Thanks for sharing Kaily's story.I wish you had be...Thanks for sharing Kaily's story.<BR/><BR/>I wish you had been able to see her. It's hard to have be left wondering. <BR/><BR/>I hope the weekend was uneventful pregnancy wise. If you feel like it can you update me on what you have to do for the remaining weeks of your pregnancy? How often do you have appointments? Will they always check your cervix? If you're down to your stitch, can you dilate any more? <BR/><BR/>Sorry- if you don't feel like writing it all out don't feel obligated. I was just curious.SWHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06571144622886527378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24778307.post-1149452732038203902006-06-04T13:25:00.000-07:002006-06-04T13:25:00.000-07:00I love that song. You must have so much strength,,...I love that song. You must have so much strength,,,Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24778307.post-1149447140305013302006-06-04T11:52:00.000-07:002006-06-04T11:52:00.000-07:00Thank you for sharing Kaily's story. I'm so, so so...Thank you for sharing Kaily's story. I'm so, so sorry she's not with you today.<BR/><BR/>(((((((((HUGS)))))))))msfitzitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17174138130763427353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24778307.post-1149426937634067372006-06-04T06:15:00.000-07:002006-06-04T06:15:00.000-07:00Hi there. I am Tonya's cousin and today I decided ...Hi there. I am Tonya's cousin and today I decided to visit some of her favorite blogs and came across yours.<BR/>Your story of your loss touched me and brought tears to my eyes. I know that you have heard all the sympathies and words,and I also know that no one can take away your pain,but be reassured that your precious daughter is now somewhere she was needed more. She is now your gaurdian angel watching and protecting you from above.<BR/>I wrote a poem for a friend who lost a child,I will post it on my blog,please feel free to visit.<BR/><BR/>Take care and best wishes.Anitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11549248341851872318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24778307.post-1149394790954862822006-06-03T21:19:00.000-07:002006-06-03T21:19:00.000-07:00I am so very, very sorry for the loss of your daug...I am so very, very sorry for the loss of your daughter. Words are inadequate here. I am just so sorry for the loss you suffered and I am glad that Dorothy is doing so well.Shanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03597008945832728710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24778307.post-1149384794315208992006-06-03T18:33:00.000-07:002006-06-03T18:33:00.000-07:00Becci, I'm so sorry for your loss; I cannot imagin...Becci, <BR/>I'm so sorry for your loss; I cannot imagine the heartache you have suffered. I am so glad this pregnancy, although difficult (believe me, I know!), is so much more positive. Dorothy will be eternally grateful for the sacrfices you're making to ensure she is safe and healthy. You're are going to be an amazing mother.sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01387145957769474838noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24778307.post-1149371699502177182006-06-03T14:54:00.000-07:002006-06-03T14:54:00.000-07:00Becci, Im so so sorry you had to go through that, ...Becci, <BR/><BR/>Im so so sorry you had to go through that, its such a sad story. I read it on LAM too, your are such a strong lady and I have every faith that you will be able to kiss you baby's gorgeous little feet and feel her on your chest, shes hold on tight in there sweetie x I will be thinking on you on the 15th June xx xx xx<BR/><BR/>Julie (Julezboo)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24778307.post-1149320057552780762006-06-03T00:34:00.000-07:002006-06-03T00:34:00.000-07:00I'm crying and praying with you.I'm crying and praying with you.purple_kangaroohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02543172194041505144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24778307.post-1149317111077210362006-06-02T23:45:00.000-07:002006-06-02T23:45:00.000-07:00What a heartbreaking thing to have happen. Things ...What a heartbreaking thing to have happen. Things are very different here, where your baby's picture would have been taken and you would have been given the option of seeing her and having a service.<BR/>But I am glad to hear things are going much better with Dorothy.Emma in Canadahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17058142553612290594noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24778307.post-1149314927316155422006-06-02T23:08:00.000-07:002006-06-02T23:08:00.000-07:00Oops, I mean Dorothy.Oops, I mean Dorothy.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24778307.post-1149314842516726082006-06-02T23:07:00.000-07:002006-06-02T23:07:00.000-07:00A little tear and a bright light shines in my hear...A little tear and a bright light shines in my heart for your little Kailey Beth. When we get to Heaven she will know you, and we will all get to meet her...<BR/><BR/>My heart still gets heavy thinking about that day that life changed.<BR/><BR/>I am so happy that Doroty Grace is on the way. <BR/><BR/>Love, MomAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24778307.post-1149313492189263582006-06-02T22:44:00.000-07:002006-06-02T22:44:00.000-07:00I am so sorry about the loss of your daughter. Ta...I am so sorry about the loss of your daughter. Take care and sending you a big hug.soralishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08874975328481113933noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24778307.post-1149303910869039272006-06-02T20:05:00.000-07:002006-06-02T20:05:00.000-07:00I too have experienced a loss, it was very hard wa...I too have experienced a loss, it was very hard watching 2 of my triplets grow in the sono's and the third "go to sleep" as the dr liked to call it. I often wonder if the other 2 would have made it if the 3rd wouldnt have passed due to their very low birth weight. My sister also lost a baby around the same time you did, she also had a DNC done and she now has 2 beautiful girls and she thinks about the one she lost which she calls Hannah Grace, but she does realize that her 2 beautiful girls would not be here if it werent for that loss they suffered just before that. Hard times are often followed by miracles! I pray that everything will go well with Dorothy and that she will ease the pain in some way when you look in her face, and in some small way looking in her eyes will be like looking in Kaily's.HHHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17760524701484038890noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24778307.post-1149294731182284352006-06-02T17:32:00.000-07:002006-06-02T17:32:00.000-07:00I am so sorry for your loss! I wish we could go b...I am so sorry for your loss! I wish we could go back in time sometimes and change things from happening the way they do! I will keep praying for you and Dorothy! I can't wait until she gets here and we can see some pictures of her! We can celebrate in honor of Kaily Beth and for sweet Dorothy! I am sure that Kaily is looking down from heaven on her mommy, daddy, and little sister :)Mandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11490035879329635634noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24778307.post-1149290333914854482006-06-02T16:18:00.000-07:002006-06-02T16:18:00.000-07:00How sad to lose little Kaily. Thanks for sharing ...How sad to lose little Kaily. Thanks for sharing your story. We think of you often, with prayer and love.<BR/><BR/>LoriLori Rodehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16137207688969918642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24778307.post-1149289423949779572006-06-02T16:03:00.000-07:002006-06-02T16:03:00.000-07:00I'm sorry about the loss you went through. Your st...I'm sorry about the loss you went through. Your story felt familiar. Just take care of yourself this monthKMWhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03345570249725222608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24778307.post-1149287806087844602006-06-02T15:36:00.000-07:002006-06-02T15:36:00.000-07:00Thank you so much for telling us about Kaily Beth....Thank you so much for telling us about Kaily Beth. Rest assured that she is in some great company up there and is looking after you and Dorothy...... I could relate to so much of that post that it just breaks my heart to think that anyone else ever has to go through this kind of loss.<BR/>HugsAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24778307.post-1149285975406437182006-06-02T15:06:00.000-07:002006-06-02T15:06:00.000-07:00I am sorry for your loss. Your pain is very real t...I am sorry for your loss. Your pain is very real to me also and I admire you for being able to write about the pain you feel. I am sending ALL my LOVE and support your way! (((((HUGS)))))Shawn Mariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08659653480386982945noreply@blogger.com